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Another post about what I find in my life to be grateful about: I'm grateful to still have my parents in my life. I know quite a few who have lost a parent or both parents and it seems to leave a parament hole in ones heart. They have had both difficult lives in their own ways, but are very strong for that fact. Being born to older parents (they were in their early 40's) when they had me I had several moments in life that scared me, knowing I could lose them - I think this caused me to appreciate them more. They have had a number of health related issues, still do and it's a miracle they are able to do all they can still. I have learned a-lot from them and still continue to. They have had their ups and downs between each other and all their kids, grandkids, siblings, their own parents and other distant relatives. Life is a never ending roller coaster and I'm glad I still have them in my corner. I call them almost daily.
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I have a huge soft spot for all things little and in unexpected situations - this may be an insect in the wrong place at the wrong time and about to be stepped on to a plant that may be dying and just hanging on! I cannot help it, but my heart aches for these little living creatures whatever they may be.
I've saved dozens of little bugs that others around me jump and scream at. How is it their fault for being there? The wrong place at the wrong time is honestly what I think. The world is such a difficult and confusing place for these little guys - so I try to save them when I can. usually my rescue attempts go well, but sometimes they can be difficult.
When it comes to plants I usually try to spare myself the pain of seeing them in the clearance section on death row. I feel like some stores just get so many plants these days they don't know what to do with them! So they end up just getting neglected or being in too crowded of areas and not being bought during whatever that season is, so they need to get them out of the store to make room for whatever is "in season" next. This probably isn't the case everywhere, but I feel I've seen it enough where I live. So once in awhile I will go in these clearance sections and buy up a few, give them love and they live in most cases.
And finally in the past I used to volunteer at my local animal shelter. It was a nice experience overall but I ended up adopting two sickly cats. And they both lived somewhat short lives in the grand scheme of things, but I tried to give them the best lives I could. I adopted a dog years ago who was literally on death row for being too old and the dog shelter running out of room. He was to be put down in a few days for this reason. But he had a good 3 in a half years - to 4 years with me. I've adopted a few Walmart fish over the years and those even lived a somewhat more decent life.
Maybe it goes back to just my nature or something on a deeper level... but I cannot help but help those who I think may need me. It makes me feel useful and gives me purpose.

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